What if suffering isn’t personal—but perceptual?
What if sadness, fear, and frustration are not your flaws, but the very signals leading you home?
In The Three Beliefs of Ego, Aaron Abke reveals the root causes of all human suffering and how to disentangle from ego to live as your True Self.
Now, for the first time, Aaron is guiding a live 4-week journey through The Three Beliefs of the Ego with added practices, journal prompts, challenges, and a bonus workbook.
Whether you’ve already read the book, are just beginning, or are somewhere in between, this is your opportunity to embody its teachings in real life with clarity, support, and spiritual depth.

Weekly Reading Plan: A clear, digestible rhythm of ~70 pages per week across 4 weeks
Weekly Live Calls with Aaron Abke: Aaron answers your questions, explores key insights, and reflects on real-time themes from the group
Catalyst Journal Prompts: Designed to guide you into self-inquiry, emotional awareness, and remembrance of Truth
Weekly Embodiment Practices: Simple practices that help integrate the teachings somatically and energetically
Private Book Club Chat: A space of shared awakening. Post your reflections, share your ahas, and receive support from others on the same path.



The workbook includes...
Breakdown of Each Core Belief: Lack, Attachment, Control
The Catalyst Journal: Dive deeper into the root cause of emotional patterns
The Requalification Guide: How to transform egoic energy into soul awareness
Essential Definitions: Clarified explanations of the most-used terms in the book, so you can stay anchored in the teaching as you read


Explore the illusion of separation, the nature of suffering, and the soul’s desire to return home

Discover how the sadness of “not enough” reveals the path to wholeness

Unwind the attachments and controls that keep you from peace

Embody the truth. Let go of striving. Rest in the awareness that Life is already living you
This is for you if...
You’re ready to live the teachings in your nervous system and relationships
You resonate deeply with Aaron’s voice and message, and feel called to walk this path in community, with his guidance and presence
You’ve begun to witness the ego in real time, and want structure and support to disidentify, dissolve, and return to the I AM
You’re ready for clarity, integration, and embodiment of truth in your daily life
This book really moved me. Aaron explains suffering in a way that is simple and clear, showing how it comes from three core beliefs: lack, attachment, and control. What makes it powerful is the practical guidance he offers through the Emotional Guidance System, which I find useful in everyday life.
I have been a fan of Aaron’s YouTube channel for a long time, but this book shows that he has serious chops as a writer. His language is both poetic and precise, making profound truths easy to grasp without losing their depth.
I also appreciate how he brings together Christian theology and nondual teachings, pointing back to love and unity. Reading it felt like being guided home to truths I had always known in my heart. A genuine and uplifting book for anyone seeking peace and freedom from suffering.
There are not enough stars in the universe to give to this book. I am a super fan of Aarons work and thought I had learned everything he had to teach about the Three beliefs of the Ego but... not true! The book is like a lifeline to end the suffering from the constant pain we all suffer from. I am clinging to it for dear life, reading it very slowly as it is packed full of the most precious wisdom. I have been a student of all things self help for a lifetime and Arron has a teaching method that speaks to my soul. This book is easy to read and grasp. No higher recommendation for this book. Truly life changing for $20!!!
This book is AMAZING & LIBERATING. I have been studying A Course In Miracles and many other Christ Consciousness teachings for years. Finding Aaron Abke on YouTube a few years back has been like finding the missing link that is putting everything together for me. He has a way of explaining deep spiritual truths so clearly that you are able to easily apply these principles to your daily life and actually Live them! For anyone serious about healing their mind this book is a treasure. I am blown away in every chapter. Everything I’ve learned in the past 30 years has all come together with Aaron Abke’s style of teaching. He is the real deal and a gifted Teacher. Buy the book! You will be glad you did! It’s time for all of us to wake up and this book will most definately speed up that awakening. 💜
The Three Beliefs of Ego gives you knowledge and practical applications which can lead you to the enlightenment within. Suffering is a mindset, a clinging to a false reality. Aaron Abke's seminal work can lead to a transformation of your foundational way of thinking. It offers a repeatable framework to investigate and learn from your everyday life. There are methods to requalify thoughts, balance emotions and use feelings as reflections of your perceived reality. These techniques are a guidance system to clue you into your own beliefs of lack, attachment, and control which lead to suffering. Through the guided self inquiry, gone is suffering, replaced with gratitude and lessons learned from all life situations.
The mind is a prison, and Aaron hands you a key to get out of that prison. I’ve taken Aaron’s course online and practiced the techniques you learn in this book. I guarantee that if you do the work you can free yourself from the mind’s prison. It takes determination, persistence and a big dose of faith but it’s possible. When we clean up the messy mind of all its attachments, fears, false beliefs, opinions, judgments, sad stories, hurts, resentments, traumas, etc. we make room for our true nature to reveal itself. It’s possible to feel joy, love and peace for no reason at all because it is our birthright, our true nature of who we already are. The mind simply covers it all up with its layers upon layers of ignorance. Harmony doesn’t come free. It is hard earned. The path towards freedom is ‘straight and narrow’ and requires discipline. However, there are great rewards awaiting the person who is willing to shine a light on him/herself and work through all the messy mental layers. I wish you the best of luck on this journey. May you be blessed by God’s light and God’s grace.
This is an essential spiritual teaching! It's the best book on the spiritual aspects of the ego that I have ever read! It pulls the curtain back on the ego and all of its schemes, showing just how crazy and insane its thought systems are. And, you thought it was just 'you'! It's a powerful and liberating book to read and re-read. Thank you, Aaron!
Worried you won’t be able to read the full book in a month?
The book is 274 pages, and over a 30-day journey, that’s about 10 pages a day or 70 pages a week. If that feels like too much, there’s also an audiobook version. And even if you don’t read a single page, joining the live calls, exploring the workbook, and doing the journal prompts will still move you deeply. (But yes, we recommend reading it).
Already read it 5+ times and unsure if you’ll get more from it?
Throughout the creation of this Book Club we focused on integration being the key factor. There is a famous quote that says it takes 10,000 hours before you Master something. Would you like to master this? Then this is for you. We’ve created new practices, deeper insights, and a complete Companion Workbook with clear definitions and simple breakthrough opportunities. You’ll get a new lens on teachings you thought you understood. You will get more from joining the Book Club then by reading it alone 10 more times. In numbers, so much can be accomplished.
Is this beginner friendly?
Yes. Whether this is your first spiritual book or one of many, you’ll be guided step by step through the reading, reflections, and practices. There’s room for wherever you are on the path.
What if I can’t attend the live calls?
All Book Club calls are recorded and saved for you. You’ll be able to watch the replays whenever it works best for you.
What if I fall behind?
There’s no true falling behind. You are on your own path and are living at your own rhythm. The reflections, practices, and community conversations will support you no matter how much you’ve read that week. You can watch the replays whenever it serves you best. Therefore, its all here for you when you are ready.
How much does it cost to join?
This Book Club is offered as a heart-led contribution. You’re invited to give any amount that feels true for you, beginning at $11. You're invited to contribute what feels aligned for you, honoring both your inner yes and the shared space we're creating together.
Can I ask Aaron questions during the Book Club?
Yes. Each week, you can submit your questions based on that week’s reading. We’ll gather the most common or helpful ones and share them with Aaron for the live calls.
What kind of support will I have?
You’ll have a private Book Club Chat where you can post your reflections, share your ahas, ask questions, and connect with others on the same journey.
Start Date: November 1st
What You Receive:
✔️ 4-Week Reading Plan
✔️ Weekly LIVE Calls with Aaron
✔️ Digital Workbook + Practice Templates
✔️ Weekly Journal Prompts + Embodiment Tools
✔️ Private Book Club Chat for Reflection, Community, & Support

Start Date: November 1st
What You Receive:
✔️ 4-Week Reading Plan
✔️ Weekly LIVE Calls with Aaron
✔️ Digital Workbook + Practice Templates
✔️ Weekly Journal Prompts + Embodiment Tools
✔️ Private Book Club Chat for Reflection, Community, & Support

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